During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we recognize many students’ unseen battles.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline or call 1-800-799-SAFE for support and help locating a nearby shelter. RAINN.org also provides free, confidential support services and information for survivors of sexual violence.
“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.” — Wendy Mass
Chronic absenteeism is rarely just about a lack of motivation or disinterest in learning. Behind many missed days are deeper, more painful realities, rooted in trauma, unmet needs, or households in crisis. When a student is missing from the classroom, it’s often because something has disrupted their foundation.
For some, that disruption is domestic violence. It’s a reality that too many families face, and one that often forces impossible choices.
Imagine leaving everything familiar behind—your neighborhood, school, friends, and belongings—for survival. That was the case for our client John*, whose mother made the courageous decision to flee an abusive home. The sudden move led to weeks of missed classes, and even after resettling, John carried the heavy weight of anxiety and fear, which made it difficult to focus on learning.
Stories like John’s are, sadly, not rare.
- An estimated 10–20% of children in the U.S. are exposed to intimate partner violence each year, with as many as one‑third experiencing it at least once during childhood.
- Witnessing domestic violence is linked to declines in educational performance, social ability, and increased risk for mental health issues.
- Exposure to violence has been shown to impair cognitive development in children, which can contribute to underachievement and educational gaps.
For children experiencing violence at home, school isn’t just a place to learn. It can be a lifeline. A consistent routine, a trusted adult, or a warm meal can offer the stability and support that a young person needs to begin healing and reimagining what’s possible for their future.
That’s why TIP’s work is deeply connected to this issue. Our advocates walk alongside families navigating crises, helping them access critical resources and create pathways that keep students engaged and hopeful—even in the face of profound challenges. In partnership with schools, courts, and community organizations, we work to break cycles of violence and chronic absenteeism and ensure students are safe, supported, and seen.
During Domestic Violence Awareness Month and beyond, we stand in solidarity with survivors and their families. We remain committed to raising awareness of how violence affects children’s lives and education, and to offering the compassion and advocacy that helps students rise above their circumstances.
*Student’s name has been changed to maintain confidentiality.
